It is high time that I learn to be more careful about hope, a reckless emotion for travelers. The sensible approach would be to the expect the worst, the very worst, that way you avoid grievous disappointment and who knows with a tiny bit of luck, you might even have a moderately pleasant surprise, like the difference between hell and purgatory. Martha Gellhorn
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Hope is something that is a great motivator. However, it is also a dangerous emotion. If you are expecting the absolute worst to happen, you will never be surprised by anything good. In fact, if anything good happens, you will likely be shocked and disappointed.

Instead, it is better to expect the best and hope for something better. There is no better way to enjoy a surprise than to expect that surprise and then find that surprise enjoyable.

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